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Thursday 17 October 2013

Be aware of your blind side!

“Be aware of your blind side” said the young instructor during my driving classes a few years ago. Now saying it is of course a lot easier than doing it. On probing on how to be ‘aware’ the instructor came out with a gem.  “Don’t worry, your subconscious will take care of it!” he said. Takes us to the question, then why be ‘aware’ of something which your subconscious will anyway take care off?  To be honest I became ‘aware’ about my blind side only after being reminded of it and nearly ran my car into another. This triggered a few more thoughts on certain routine instances with regards to be or not to be conscious.

One is often faced with such dilemmas in our everyday life when we are not sure how to react. I pen down a few which has often bothered me and how I went about overcoming the same. It has happened to almost all of us when you come across a random acquaintance while going about our activities. An acquaintance whom you have seen many times in the locality or market or bus stand etc without actually knowing him/her. You recognise the person, want to smile at him/her but pull back in the last moment wondering what if the same is not reciprocated. My solution to this is just go ahead and smile irrespective of the end result. If the person smiles back, great. I no smiles result, no loss. After all an oft repeated but frightful chestnut says ‘a smile doesn’t cost you anything but adds highly to your face value’!

The other routine occurrence which many of us would have gone through is a feeling that someone just called you from behind. This happens especially in places where we least expect it to happen. My suggestion is turn back, check and make sure whether somebody is indeed calling you or not. If yes, touch base. If not, go right ahead to wherever you were going.

It must have definitely happened to you some time or the other when you hear a conversation on an adjacent table in a restaurant or on a train compartment or any such random places. The people involved in the conversation are either unaware or are wrong regarding the subject under discussion which incidentally you are familiar with. The impulse is to interrupt/interject and set the record straight. However you hold back because you might be treated as an unwelcome addition or worse still an eavesdropper or a nosey parker. My suggestion is to approach this in a civil manner.  Ask the parties concerned and volunteer to explain. If welcomed, go ahead and do it. If not, thank and make way!

One of the other things I have noticed is the effect of music on as mundane an act as walking. During the days when I did most of my commuting by walk with a mandatory walkman attached to my person, I realized I walk faster when the music was peppy and fast paced while I seem to drag my feet when some soulful number was being played. My steps synchronizing perfectly with the beats of the song. The other walking related syndrome I have noticed is that one has a tendency to inadvertently get into a ‘race’ when one sees a passerby walking besides you, faster than you. Nobody likes to lose me thinks, even in an non competitive ‘race’. The marvel is that the other person in question in most cases reacts similarly.

Psychiatrist or students of this Science may have fancy names for such phenomenon and I hope someone among those of you reading this will someday explain me the same in depth. Till such time all I can say is “be aware of your blind side’!

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PS: Hope @FatimaJAX has the answer to one of her queries!

14 comments:

  1. Thank you so much for the special mention. Lovely write-up :-)

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    1. Welcome. Actually I should be thanking you as it was one of your tweets which triggered the thought process behind the post!

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  2. Functioning of human mind is yet to be fully deciphered by the science. There are many such experiences that are beyond rational explanation. Like you mentioned, let us hope someone, some day, will have more answers about our 'blind side'

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    1. Thank you for reading. I for once thought this note is a mixed bag. Not sure I was able to make sense here or people would be able to relate. Glad I was wrong. Guess trusting the blind side has its benefits:)

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  3. Great read :) Thank you!! :) -Saranya

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  4. Good read yet again. And this is the reason I interfere in Twitter chats. :)
    ... @ket25 (Twitter)

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    1. Thanks Mate! And this is the reason I follow 'select' people on twitter. Adds value to my life rather than just numbers:)

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  5. Awesome Post. I have a good blogger in my friend list now. Keep 'em Coming :)

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  6. Thanks mate! Rookie blogger might be a better choice of word i think:)

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  7. awesome post!! collage of some happenings that lies in our subconsious,Glad that u could put it all together!!

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  8. Thanks! I am sure the experience shared are universal. And there are many more that can be quoted. Thanks.

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